Appetizers (Invitations)
1. The E-mail Invitation: In passing, ask your neighbor for his or her e-mail address.
E-mail is so commonplace these days that, if your neighbor(s) can access an e-mail
account, it would be simple and nonchalant to ask them to Dinner Day by sending the
an invitation or a short note via e-mail. For an online invitation program that is
easy to use, visit www.evite.com.
2. The Phone Call: While not as personal as directly approaching your neighbor(s),
you may feel more comfortable calling them and inviting them to Dinner Day over the
telephone. You can ask other familiar neighbors for their phone number or you can
simply consult the phonebook, if they are listed.
3. In-Person (Chef's Specialty): If you have often passed your neighbor(s) and have
not engaged in conversation, now is the time to do so. Inviting them to Dinner Day
in person will start the process of building neighborly trust. Better yet, stop by
during the holidays to spread some cheer (if it doesn't appear like they have too
many guests). Knock on the door and introduce yourself. A friendly smile can go a
long way.
Entrees (Dining Options)
1. At Your Home: Invite your neighbor(s) over to your place for a cozy and intimate
atmosphere. This will give you the opportunity to meet each other without having
any distractions to hinder the flow of conversation.
2. At a Restaurant: While there may be more noise at a restaurant, perhaps you and
your neighbors will feel more comfortable dining together at a neutral place. Be
sure to choose a local establishment that is preferred by all parties involved.
3. Pot Luck Supper or Neighborhood Gathering: If you do not feel comfortable hosting
an unfamiliar neighbor by yourself, ask other neighbors or friends to join you. Remember,
there is safety in numbers. This option can be served with one of the three sauces
listed below.
- At your home.
- At the home of a fellow neighbor or friend.
- At a local hall or community center.
Desserts (Desired Outcomes)
1. Increased Community Awareness and Involvement: Loaded with proactive attitudes.
2. Newfound Trust Among Neighbors: Served with a side of friendship.
3. National Recognition of the second Saturday in January as the Annual Invite Your
Neighbor to Dinner Day.
4. Sampler: Includes a full portion of items 1, 2, & 3 (for real sweet-tooths).
Questions? Comments? Suggestions?
Please e-mail info@dinnerday.com.
